{"id":6193,"date":"2018-08-06T09:21:31","date_gmt":"2018-08-06T07:21:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=6193"},"modified":"2018-08-06T09:21:31","modified_gmt":"2018-08-06T07:21:31","slug":"hayaller-hayatlar-zekiye-senturkler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=6193","title":{"rendered":"Hayaller Hayatlar- Zekiye \u015eent\u00fcrkler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Hayallerimiz ve hayatlar\u0131m\u0131za dair d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinize cevap bulabilece\u011finiz makalemiz Argasdi&#8217;nin &#8220;ya\u015fam&#8221; dosyal\u0131 51. say\u0131s\u0131nda&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/dunyanin-uzerinde-yatan.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6195 alignright\" alt=\"dunyanin-uzerinde-yatan\" src=\"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/dunyanin-uzerinde-yatan-300x114.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"114\" srcset=\"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/dunyanin-uzerinde-yatan-300x114.jpg 300w, https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/dunyanin-uzerinde-yatan-1024x390.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/dunyanin-uzerinde-yatan.jpg 1352w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Hayallerimize \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015ftan hakim oluyor herkes, herkesinkine de sistem tabii. \u201cBenim k\u0131z\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce \u00f6\u011fretmen olacak, avukat olacak\u2026\u201d ya da \u201cbenim o\u011flum b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce m\u00fchendis olacak, doktor olacak\u2026\u201d Peki, \u00fc\u00e7-be\u015f ya\u015flar\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n bunlar\u0131 tercih edece\u011fini nereden bilebiliriz? Neden zorla onlara bunlar\u0131 hayal etmesini dayat\u0131yoruz? Neden kendimizin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyleri onlara yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz? Asl\u0131nda biz ger\u00e7ekten bunlar\u0131 olmak istiyor muyuz? Yoksa sistem bize bunlar\u0131 olmam\u0131z\u0131 m\u0131 buyuruyor? Neden \u201cb\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce ne olacak bakal\u0131m annesi\/babas\u0131 k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\/o\u011flumuz?\u201d diye sorulunca \u201cne istiyorsa onu, b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce kendisine sorar\u0131z hayalindeki mesle\u011fi\u201d diyemiyoruz?<\/p>\n<p><b>Her \u015feyin ba\u015f\u0131 sistem!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Maalesef bize bunlar\u0131 yapt\u0131ran sistem ve biz de ona ayak uyduruyoruz fark\u0131nda olmadan. \u00c7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda bizlere kendisinin i\u015fine ne geliyorsa onlar\u0131 yapmam\u0131z\u0131 do\u011frudan ya da dolayl\u0131 olarak ve hi\u00e7bir y\u00f6ntemden ka\u00e7\u0131nmadan enjekte ediyor. Kad\u0131nsan \u00f6\u011fretmen olmal\u0131s\u0131n mesela; g\u00fc\u00e7 gerektirmeyen bir i\u015f. \u00c7ocuklarla ilgilenme \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyor ki bu kad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6revi zaten. Ayr\u0131ca \u00f6\u011flene kadar olan bir i\u015f, b\u00f6ylelikle kad\u0131nlar da evlerine vakitlice geri d\u00f6n\u00fcp, temizlik, \u00fct\u00fc, bula\u015f\u0131k ve sair i\u015flerle de ilgilenebilecek. Ya da erkeksen fiziksel g\u00fcc\u00fcn yerli yerinde olmal\u0131d\u0131r, kad\u0131nlardan da zekisindir zaten, b\u00f6ylece m\u00fchendis ya da doktor olmak tam sana lay\u0131k bir meslektir. Gece n\u00f6betleriyle ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilirsin, matematik-fizik-mekanik gibi bilgiler zaten sana do\u011fu\u015ftan y\u00fcklenmi\u015ftir ana rahminde. Kendi fikirlerimiz, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerimiz olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlarda ailelerimiz, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz taraf\u0131ndan, kendi bilincimiz oldu\u011fu zamanda ise ko\u015fullar\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131rarak ve bask\u0131 yaparak hayallerimizi \u015fekillendiriyor sistem. Biraz s\u00f6z\u00fcnden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131n m\u0131 sistemin, hemen bir dayatma geliyor bir yerlerden. Mesela balet mi olmak istiyorsun bay\u0131m? Hemen sistem t\u00fcm \u00e7evreni sal\u0131yor \u00fczerine. Ba\u015fl\u0131yor \u201csa\u00e7mala dostum k\u0131z gibi\u201d, \u201cbalet olup da ne yapacaks\u0131n, nerede i\u015f bulacaks\u0131n\u201d, \u201cerkek adam dedi\u011fin dans m\u0131 edermi\u015f.\u201d Ya da m\u00fchendis mi olacaks\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131m? Peki ya ev i\u015flerini kim yapacak? Hem sonra akl\u0131n erer mi? Otur oturdu\u011fun yerde. Ya\u015f\u0131n gelince evlenmene bak ve sisteme itaat et.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk olarak mesle\u011fine el koyuyor sistem, sonra ba\u015fl\u0131yor \u00f6n\u00fcne hedefler koymaya. Zengin olmak, \u00e7ok para kazanmak, l\u00fcks evler, pahal\u0131 arabalar, marka k\u0131yafetler umurunda bile de\u011fil mi! \u201cAma bak bilmem kimin o\u011fluna, durmadan \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p neler yapm\u0131\u015f, hem bilmem nerede m\u00fcd\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f\u201dler ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Yani sistemin \u00e7ark\u0131 t\u0131k\u0131r t\u0131k\u0131r d\u00f6n\u00fcyor. \u00d6nce sermayenin ihtiyac\u0131 olan mesle\u011fi se\u00e7men sa\u011flan\u0131yor, sonra da sistemi zenginle\u015ftirece\u011fin hedefler hayallerin oluyor; sonsuz vakitlere kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, krediler \u00e7ekip evler arabalar almak, mevki sahibi olmak ve y\u00fckselmek daha da y\u00fckselmek. Sonra \u00fcremek, \u00e7o\u011falmak ve sistemin sana \u00f6\u011frettiklerini \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na aktararak sisteme yeni yat\u0131r\u0131mlar yapmak.<\/p>\n<p><b>Niye peki? Deli miyiz biz?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ko\u015fullar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kabullenerek, sistemin al\u00e7ak oyununa gelmeden hayallerimizi ya\u015famak yerine neden bu s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fc sisteminin i\u00e7erisinde eriyip yok olal\u0131m? Neden gen\u00e7ken d\u00fc\u015fledi\u011fimiz d\u00fcnyay\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirme inanc\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve kendimizde buldu\u011fumuz her \u015feyi yapabilme g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc sisteme yedirelim? Neden hayallerimizle hayatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kesi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in m\u00fccadeleyi b\u0131rakal\u0131m? Hayallerimizi sistemin \u00e7almas\u0131na izin vermeyelim. Kendimizi i\u015ften eve, evden i\u015fe giden, banka taksitleri, kredi kart\u0131 bor\u00e7lar\u0131 ve faturalar \u00f6demeye programl\u0131 robotlar yapmayal\u0131m. Gelin kocaman evlerde ya\u015fay\u0131p son model arabalar s\u00fcren m\u00fcd\u00fcrler yerine insan kalmakta direnen, hayalleri pe\u015finde ko\u015fan s\u0131radan insanlar olal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p><b>Hayaller i\u00e7in hayatlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek de m\u00fcmk\u00fcn!\u00a0 <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sistemin bize yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp ona k\u00f6le olmaktansa, kabullenmeyip direnelim. Hayallerimizi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn k\u0131labilmek i\u00e7in hayatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirelim. Kendi tercih etmedi\u011fimiz yerlerde, zenginleri daha zengin etmek i\u00e7in bize okunan masallara kula\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 t\u0131kayal\u0131m. \u0130nanmayal\u0131m hep daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 isteyerek mutlu olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131za\u2026 Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ezip ge\u00e7erek de\u011fil, herkese hakk\u0131n\u0131n verilmesi ve insanca ya\u015fayabilece\u011fimiz bir d\u00fcnya i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Hayal edelim, hayal kural\u0131m ve hayal kurdural\u0131m gen\u00e7lere o istedi\u011fimiz d\u00fcnyay\u0131. Sonra da bunun i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele edelim, etmeyi a\u015f\u0131layal\u0131m. Bizim k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z astronot, o\u011fullar\u0131m\u0131z balet olabilsin mesela. Sisteme kar\u015f\u0131 \u00f6rg\u00fctlenip ba\u015fkald\u0131ral\u0131m hep birlikte. Kabul etmeyelim hayallerimizin \u00fczerine bir \u00e7izgi \u00e7ekip kendi istediklerini yazmalar\u0131n\u0131 defterimize. Alal\u0131m kalemi ellerinden geri ya da hi\u00e7 vermeyelim ve yazmak i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele edelim hayallerimizle dolu kendi d\u00fcnyam\u0131z\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHayalperest oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6yleyebilirsiniz<\/p>\n<p>Ama tek hayalci ben de\u011filim.<\/p>\n<p>Umar\u0131m bir g\u00fcn sen de bize kat\u0131l\u0131rs\u0131n<\/p>\n<p>Ve b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00fcnya bir oluruz.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><i>Imagine, John Lennon<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hayallerimiz ve hayatlar\u0131m\u0131za dair d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinize cevap bulabilece\u011finiz makalemiz Argasdi&#8217;nin &#8220;ya\u015fam&#8221; dosyal\u0131 51. say\u0131s\u0131nda&#8230; Hayallerimize \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015ftan hakim oluyor herkes, herkesinkine de sistem tabii. \u201cBenim<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":6195,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[40,67,44,9,1,39],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/dunyanin-uzerinde-yatan.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4eHWX-1BT","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6193"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6193"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6193\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6196,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6193\/revisions\/6196"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6195"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6193"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6193"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6193"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}