{"id":6229,"date":"2018-08-17T10:34:35","date_gmt":"2018-08-17T08:34:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=6229"},"modified":"2018-08-17T10:34:35","modified_gmt":"2018-08-17T08:34:35","slug":"kasinti-merak-olum-ve-yasam-munur-rahvancioglu-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=6229","title":{"rendered":"Ka\u015f\u0131nt\u0131, Merak, \u00d6l\u00fcm ve Ya\u015fam- M\u00fcn\u00fcr Rahvanc\u0131o\u011flu"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"FOTO\"<\/a>Ya\u015fam denen olgu do\u011fumdan \u00f6l\u00fcme bir yolculuk… Argasdi’nin “ya\u015fam” dosyal\u0131 51. say\u0131s\u0131ndan “Ka\u015f\u0131nt\u0131, Merak, \u00d6l\u00fcm ve Ya\u015fam” isimli makalemizi sizlerle payla\u015f\u0131yoruz. okuyan herkesin kendinden bir \u015fey bulaca\u011f\u0131 makalemizde hala merak etti\u011finiz i\u00e7in \u015fa\u015f\u0131racaks\u0131n\u0131z…<\/em><\/p>\n

Y\u0131llar \u00f6nce yeni do\u011fmu\u015f k\u0131z\u0131m m\u0131\u015f\u0131l m\u0131\u015f\u0131l uyurken, akl\u0131ma gelen \u201cya \u015fimdi bir yerleri ka\u015f\u0131n\u0131r da kendi kendini ka\u015f\u0131yamazsa\u201d \u015feklindeki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyle irkildi\u011fimi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum… \u0130nsan herhangi bir sebepten ka\u015f\u0131nabilir; sinek \u0131s\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131, bir organ\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde tutmak veya toz, ter gibi en do\u011fal sebepler ka\u015f\u0131nt\u0131ya neden olabilir. Ka\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, elimizi ka\u015f\u0131nan yere g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr ve t\u0131rnaklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 cildimizin \u00fczerinde hareket ettiririz. O ne ho\u015f bir rahatlama hissidir, nas\u0131l g\u00fczel bir duygudur… Ka\u015f\u0131nma ihtiyac\u0131 duydu\u011fumuz halde ka\u015f\u0131namasayd\u0131k kim bilir bizim i\u00e7in nas\u0131l bir kabus olurdu…<\/p>\n

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Peki ama\u00e7l\u0131 hareketler yapamayan bir bebek, ka\u015f\u0131nt\u0131 hissetti\u011finde ne olur? \u00dcstelik konu\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in bunu ifade etmesi ve birinden yard\u0131m istemesi de m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil!<\/p>\n

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Endi\u015femin tamamen gereksiz oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimde, hem rahatlam\u0131\u015f hem de \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Bebeklerin \u0131s\u0131y\u0131, so\u011fu\u011fu, a\u011fr\u0131y\u0131, ka\u015f\u0131nmay\u0131 ve buna benzer kendi kendilerine \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleyemeyecekleri bir\u00e7ok sorunu yeti\u015fkinler gibi alg\u0131lamad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 veya \u00e7ok \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck seviyelerde alg\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek benim i\u00e7in yepyeni bir \u015feydi.<\/p>\n

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B\u00f6ylece fark ettim ki, evrimimiz bizi ya\u015fam boyu y\u00fczle\u015fece\u011fimiz s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lara do\u011fu\u015ftan itibaren haz\u0131rl\u0131yor. Bebeklikte ve hatta \u00e7ocuklukta \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek olan a\u011fr\u0131 e\u015fi\u011fimizin, olgunluk d\u00f6nemimizde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131kta yeniden y\u00fckselmesi bunun sadece ufak bir par\u00e7as\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta bizi hayata haz\u0131rlayan bu \u00f6nlem, ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sonlar\u0131nda da \u00f6l\u00fcme daha dayan\u0131kl\u0131 k\u0131l\u0131yor…<\/p>\n

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Ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131kta kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131 daha katlan\u0131labilir k\u0131lmak \u00fczere, v\u00fccudumuz kendini haz\u0131rlarken, \u00f6l\u00fcm yakla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a bedenimiz de buna g\u00f6re d\u00fczenleniyor. \u00d6nceden duyulur olan duyulmaz, \u00f6nceden hissedilir olan hissedilmez hale gelirken, \u00f6nceden katlan\u0131lamaz olan art\u0131k daha katlan\u0131labilir bir hale gelmi\u015f oluyor.<\/p>\n

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\u00d6l\u00fcme haz\u0131rlanan\u0131n sadece beden olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ki\u015finin bilincinin de \u00f6l\u00fcm yakla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a bununla ba\u015f etmek i\u00e7in \u00e7e\u015fitli \u00f6nlemler geli\u015ftirdi\u011fini fark etmek, benim bu d\u00fczlemde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ikinci \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n vesilesi oldu. Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e, uzun zamand\u0131r tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n daha az merakl\u0131, daha az \u015fa\u015f\u0131ran, daha heyecans\u0131z bir yap\u0131ya b\u00fcr\u00fcnmesini izlemek benim i\u00e7in hem \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc hem de inan\u0131lmaz bir \u015feydi.<\/p>\n

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\u0130nsanlar ya\u015fland\u0131k\u00e7a, \u201cbu hep b\u00f6yleydi zaten\u201d, \u201cniye \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131yorsun, beklenmedik bir \u015fey de\u011fil bu\u201d, \u201cnormaldir\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleleri daha \u00e7ok kuruyorlar, heyecan duygusuna mesafeli yakla\u015f\u0131yorlar. Bir s\u00fcre sonra hayat insanlar i\u00e7in i\u00e7erisinde yeni ve \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 \u015feyler bar\u0131nd\u0131rmayan s\u0131radan bir olgu haline geliyor. Be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun kelebek g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde nas\u0131l davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcne getirin, sonra da yeti\u015fkin bir insan\u0131n benzer bir durumdaki tepkisini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Ya\u015fam\u0131n yitimi, hangisi i\u00e7in daha ac\u0131 bir kay\u0131p olurdu?<\/p>\n

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\u00d6nce \u201cyeni fikirlere yakla\u015f\u0131m\u201d gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyas\u0131na ait olgular etkileniyor bundan, bir s\u00fcre sonra da fiziki d\u00fcnyaya ili\u015fkin merak yitimi ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Belki seyahat etmek gibi mekan de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri, daha uzun bir s\u00fcre merak ve heyecan nesnesi olabiliyor ancak bunlar da eninde sonunda \u201cbilindik mekanlar\u0131n farkl\u0131 \u00e7e\u015fitleri\u201d olarak s\u0131n\u0131fland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p \u00f6nemini kaybediyor. Var\u0131lan yerde, \u201cfarkl\u0131 co\u011frafyalarda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 yukar\u0131 benzer ya\u015famlar\u0131n devam etti\u011fi\u201d \u00fcstelik bunun \u201cge\u00e7mi\u015fte de bu \u015fekilde oldu\u011fu\u201d duygusu hakim hale geliyor. B\u00f6ylece huzurlu bir \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn kap\u0131lar\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczde ard\u0131na kadar a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f oluyor. Her \u015feyi biliyorsak, hi\u00e7bir \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fmiyorsa, \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde eksik kalacak bir \u015fey yoksa, bu d\u00fcnyadaki i\u015fimiz de tamamlanm\u0131\u015f demek de\u011fil midir?<\/p>\n

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Zaten s\u0131radan olan her \u015fey gibi, ya\u015fam da bir s\u00fcre sonra s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 hale geliyor… Zaman\u0131 gelince \u00f6lmek gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen gen\u00e7ler ve uzun bir \u00f6m\u00fcrden sonra herhangi bir sa\u011fl\u0131k sorunu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde ya\u015famaktan s\u0131k\u0131lan ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ne yaz\u0131k ki inkar edilemez bir ger\u00e7ek…<\/p>\n

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Belli ki, hem bedenimiz hem de zihnimiz arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olan \u00f6l\u00fcme haz\u0131rlanmak evrimimizin par\u00e7as\u0131. \u00dcstelik gerekli bir par\u00e7as\u0131… Nas\u0131l ka\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ka\u015f\u0131yam\u0131yorsak, ka\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hissetmemek fiziksel a\u00e7\u0131dan en iyisiyse; \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc engelleyemiyorsak da ya\u015fam\u0131n renklerini daha soluk g\u00f6rmemiz duygusal a\u00e7\u0131dan daha iyi olsa gerek…<\/p>\n

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Ancak nas\u0131l bebekken sinek \u0131s\u0131r\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissetmememiz, \u0131s\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ger\u00e7e\u011fini de\u011fi\u015ftirmiyorsa; ya\u015fama dair merak duygumuzu yitirmemiz de ya\u015fam\u0131n milyonlarca y\u0131l ya\u015fasak bile bitirilemeyecek sonsuz zenginliklerle dolu oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fini de\u011fi\u015ftirmiyor. Bunlar bizim g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f alan\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorlar, o kadar…<\/p>\n

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Bu bilgi ile ne yapabiliriz? Yuvas\u0131nda uyuyan bebe\u011fin ka\u015f\u0131nmak istiyor olabilece\u011finden endi\u015felenmeyebiliriz mesela ki ya\u015fayan bilir az bir \u015fey de\u011fildir bu… Ya da kanat \u00e7\u0131rpan kelebe\u011fin ard\u0131ndan ko\u015fmay\u0131 deneyebiliriz biz de, merak etmesek de s\u0131rf merakl\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun merak\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rselememek i\u00e7in…<\/p>\n

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Veya yeni bir fikri heyecanla derinle\u015ftiren dostumuzun y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn so\u011fuk surat\u0131yla bak\u0131p \u201c\u00e7ok mu \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131n\u201d demeyebiliriz. Biz \u015fa\u015f\u0131rmasak da, ya\u015fam\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftirenin \u015fa\u015f\u0131ranlar\u0131n \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 oldu\u011funun ve bizdekinin \u00f6l\u00fcme yakla\u015fmaktan kaynakl\u0131 bir merak yitiminden ibaret oldu\u011funun bilinciyle…<\/p>\n

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\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc endi\u015feye mahal yok, eninde sonunda \u00f6lece\u011fiz. Ve ya\u015fam bize hep ayn\u0131 gelse de, bizden \u00f6nce oldu\u011fu gibi bizden sonra da her g\u00fcn g\u00fcmb\u00fcr g\u00fcmb\u00fcr yenilenecek… Ona kendinden bir \u015feyler katanlar ise ac\u0131y\u0131 hissedenler, merak edenler ve \u015fa\u015f\u0131rmaya devam edenler olacak…<\/p>\n

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Ya\u015fam denen olgu do\u011fumdan \u00f6l\u00fcme bir yolculuk… Argasdi’nin “ya\u015fam” dosyal\u0131 51. say\u0131s\u0131ndan “Ka\u015f\u0131nt\u0131, Merak, \u00d6l\u00fcm ve Ya\u015fam” isimli makalemizi sizlerle payla\u015f\u0131yoruz. okuyan herkesin kendinden bir<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":6224,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[40,67,44,9,1,39],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/FOTO-.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4eHWX-1Ct","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6229"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6229"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6229\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6230,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6229\/revisions\/6230"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6224"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}