{"id":7041,"date":"2019-08-26T09:33:50","date_gmt":"2019-08-26T07:33:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=7041"},"modified":"2019-08-26T09:33:50","modified_gmt":"2019-08-26T07:33:50","slug":"hayir-beni-terk-edemezsin-zekiye-senturkler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=7041","title":{"rendered":"Hay\u0131r, Beni Terk Edemezsin!- Zekiye \u015eent\u00fcrkler"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuz bize ne an\u0131msat\u0131r? Peki i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocuktan ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f yolu var m\u0131? Yoksa b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck diye i<\/em>\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fa sahip \u00e7\u0131kmayacak m\u0131y\u0131z? Argasdi’nin 55. say\u0131s\u0131nda Zekiye \u015eent\u00fcrklerin kaleminden \u00e7\u0131kan makalemizi okuduktan sonra\u00a0 i\u00e7inizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fa seslenmeyi unutmay\u0131n! Argasdi’ye ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in gazete bayiilerine, b\u00f6lgenizdeki Khora Kitabevlerine ve Baraka K\u00fclt\u00fcr Merkezi Lokali’ne u\u011frayabilirsiniz…<\/em><\/p>\n

\"argasdi<\/a>\u00c7o\u011fumuz bir sabah uyand\u0131k ve onun bizi terk etti\u011fini fark ettik. \u00c7ok mu ihmal ettik onu? \u00c7ok mu ihmal ettirdiler? \u00d6ld\u00fcrd\u00fck m\u00fc onu? \u00d6ld\u00fcrmelerine izin mi verdik? Yoksa o mu bizi terk etti? Hi\u00e7 mi geri d\u00f6nmeyecek? \u0130zin mi verece\u011fiz onu bir daha ya\u015fatmamaya? \u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fa sahip \u00e7\u0131kmayacak m\u0131y\u0131z!<\/p>\n

\u00c7ek ellerini hain!<\/b><\/p>\n

Ge\u00e7im s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131, hayat gailesi, yokluk, yoksulluk g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 zorlarken, insanlar\u0131n tek derdi de haliyle ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelesi oldu. Sistem bizlerden s\u00fcrekli almaya ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n iki kat\u0131n\u0131 istemeye, hatta kat say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcn be g\u00fcn art\u0131rmaya devam ederken bir durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmenin zaman\u0131 \u00e7oktan ge\u00e7ti. Bize bu oyunu oynayanlar\u0131n bizlerden neler ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda m\u0131y\u0131z? Peki, bizlerden al\u0131nanlar\u0131n onlar\u0131n zenginli\u011fine zenginlik katt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n? Onlar\u0131n para h\u0131rslar\u0131n\u0131 bizlere enjekte etmi\u015fler gibi hi\u00e7 durmadan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131ndan, aile ili\u015fkilerinden \u00f6d\u00fcn veren, insanl\u0131ktan \u00e7\u0131kmaya y\u00fcz tutan birer robot olmam\u0131z\u0131 seyrediyorlar. Mesailer uzuyor, evimize gelemiyor, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzu g\u00f6remiyoruz. Kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131za yetmiyor, yoruluyoruz, sinirlerimiz y\u0131pran\u0131yor, e\u015fimize dostumuza \u00e7at\u0131yoruz. \u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bile kar\u015f\u0131layamazken i\u015ften arta kalan vakitlerde evlerimize hapsoluyor arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla iki tek atam\u0131yoruz art\u0131k. Sistem ruhumuzu \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcyor, maddi-manevi bizi s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcyor, ya\u015fama istencimizi, heyecan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 emiyor. Bizim ne\u015femizin, heyecan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, safl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, \u00f6\u011frenme iste\u011fimizin, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck mutluluklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, gereksiz al\u0131nmalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, zamans\u0131z a\u011flamalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, sonu gelmez inatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve kocaman kahkahalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yap\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131 olan i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fun boynuna ellerini dolam\u0131\u015f her an biraz daha s\u0131k\u0131yorlar. O zaman onu \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeden \u201c\u00e7ek ellerini hain\u201d demek i\u00e7in harekete ge\u00e7me zaman\u0131. Sermayenin i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fu bast\u0131r\u0131p sesini k\u0131smas\u0131na engel olal\u0131m. \u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fun bo\u011faz\u0131ndaki elleri gev\u015fetmek, onun \u00e7\u0131karmak istedi\u011fi de\u011fi\u015fik sesleri \u00f6zg\u00fcr b\u0131rakmak, sistemin ona s\u00f6yletmek istediklerini de\u011fil de kendi hayk\u0131rmak istediklerini ona s\u00f6yletmek bizim elimizdedir. B\u0131rakal\u0131m da i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocuk kendi hayallerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ya\u015fas\u0131n. Onu ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentileri i\u00e7in \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeyelim. G\u00fczel saklayal\u0131m, g\u00fczel b\u00fcy\u00fctelim i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzu.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 belki bug\u00fcn\u00fcn ana babalar\u0131 olarak da \u00f6nemlidir i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocukla olan ba\u011flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koparmamak. Zira Do\u011fan C\u00fccelo\u011flu\u2019nun \u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u00c7ocuk adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda da s\u00f6yledi\u011fi gibi; “Her normal, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 insan\u0131n i\u00e7inde de\u011fi\u015fik sesler vard\u0131r. Bu sesler i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fun d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 dile getirdikleri kadar i\u00e7imizdeki ana baban\u0131n da dileklerini dile getirirler. E\u011fer birey sa\u011fl\u0131ks\u0131z bir aile ortam\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f ve bu nedenle do\u011fal geli\u015fimini tamamlayamam\u0131\u015fsa, \u0130\u00e7 \u00c7ocu\u011fun sesi zay\u0131f olacakt\u0131r. Baz\u0131 durumlarda \u0130\u00e7 \u00c7ocuk o kadar utanca bo\u011fulmu\u015ftur ki, sesi art\u0131k duyulmaz hale gelmi\u015ftir. Duyulan tek ses i\u00e7teki ana-baban\u0131n otoriter sesidir.”<\/p>\n

Hey sen! Elma dersem \u00e7\u0131k armut dersem \u00e7\u0131kma<\/b><\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fu yeniden ya\u015fatmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayal\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o olmadan yeni kazan\u0131mlar i\u00e7in m\u00fccadeleyi s\u00fcrd\u00fcremeyiz. Asla vazge\u00e7memek gerekti\u011fini i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocuk s\u00f6yler bize mesela. Yeni y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye ba\u015flayan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. T\u00fcm zorluklara ra\u011fmen zafere ula\u015fana kadar asla vazge\u00e7mez. \u0130lk ba\u015flarda yapamasa da kolayca y\u0131lmaz, ne kadar sert d\u00fc\u015ferse d\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcn tekrar dener ve ba\u015farana kadar m\u00fccadeleyi hi\u00e7 b\u0131rakmaz. Ve sonunda y\u00fcr\u00fcyebildi\u011finde elde etmi\u015f oldu\u011fu zafer, hayat\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck de\u011fi\u015fimlerden biri olur. \u00d6rg\u00fctlenmeyi de i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocuk hat\u0131rlat\u0131r bize. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir \u00e7ocuk yaln\u0131z olmay\u0131 sevmez \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o kadar g\u00fczel de\u011fildir oynamak tek ba\u015f\u0131na. Oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131p arkada\u015f\u0131yla konu\u015fturmak daha zevklidir, birlikte resim \u00e7izmek daha \u00f6\u011fretici ya da beraber \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k atmak daha y\u00fcksek ses \u00e7\u0131karmakt\u0131r. Yani \u00f6rg\u00fctl\u00fc k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda iyili\u011fi \u00f6rg\u00fctleyerek ba\u015fka bir d\u00fcnya i\u00e7in m\u00fccadeleden asla vazge\u00e7mememizi sa\u011flayacak yeg\u00e2ne arac\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fun elinde.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte tam da bu y\u00fczden gelin art\u0131k armut demekten vazge\u00e7elim i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fa. \u00d6zg\u00fcr b\u0131rakal\u0131m onu. Sistemin zindan\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131karal\u0131m ki bizler de sistemin \u00e7ark\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nd\u00fcren bir aparat olmaktan kurtulal\u0131m. K\u0131ral\u0131m zincirlerimizi. Yeniden merak edelim, soral\u0131m, sorgulayal\u0131m; neden bu d\u00fczen b\u00f6yle, bunu de\u011fi\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ne yapmal\u0131y\u0131m? Kendi do\u011frular\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele edelim, yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00f6\u011frenelim, ele\u015ftirilelim ki ba\u015fka bir d\u00fcnyay\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn k\u0131lal\u0131m. Yeniden ilk denemelerimizi yapal\u0131m, olmas\u0131n, tekrar yapal\u0131m, \u00fcretelim, \u00fcrettik\u00e7e var olal\u0131m. Biri yap dedi ya da yapma dedi diye de\u011fil, biz do\u011fru oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in yapal\u0131m, kendimiz i\u00e7in de\u011fil herkes i\u00e7in yapal\u0131m. Saf ve temiz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim, bizleri s\u00f6m\u00fcrd\u00fckleri, ezdikleri ve yorduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in biz de etraf\u0131m\u0131zdakilere ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yapmak yerine birlik olal\u0131m ve m\u00fccadele edelim onlar\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerine kar\u015f\u0131. Hadi ne duruyoruz ba\u011f\u0131ral\u0131m o zaman hep birlikte; elma!<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte orada! Kocaman lunapark ve reng\u00e2renk \u0131\u015f\u0131klar!<\/b><\/p>\n

\u0130\u00e7erisinde bulundu\u011fumuz karanl\u0131k d\u00fcnyay\u0131 hem kendimiz hem de gelece\u011fimiz olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in reng\u00e2renk \u0131\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 olan kocaman bir lunaparka \u00e7evirmek bizlerin elinde. K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na kocaman bir iyilik \u00f6rg\u00fctlemek birlikte olunca, heyecan\u0131na, iste\u011fine ve merak\u0131na sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca hi\u00e7 de zor de\u011fil asl\u0131nda. Tutal\u0131m elinden i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fun ve g\u00f6relim neler yapabilece\u011fimizi. Unutmayal\u0131m; \u00e7\u0131kamaz \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan kimse!<\/p>\n

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\u201c\u00c7\u0131kamaz \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan d\u0131\u015far\u0131<\/i><\/p>\n

Kimse.<\/i><\/p>\n

Karde\u015fli\u011fimiz bundand\u0131r<\/i><\/p>\n

Mavi sularla binlerce y\u0131l.<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00c7\u0131kamaz \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan d\u0131\u015far\u0131<\/i><\/p>\n

Kimse<\/i><\/p>\n

Bundand\u0131r inanmamam\u0131z<\/i><\/p>\n

Kocaman bombalara.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n

Faz\u0131l H\u00fcsn\u00fc Da\u011flarca \u2013 D\u00f6rt Yaprakl\u0131 \u00c7i\u00e7ek<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n

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\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuz bize ne an\u0131msat\u0131r? Peki i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocuktan ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f yolu var m\u0131? Yoksa b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck diye i\u00e7imizdeki \u00e7ocu\u011fa sahip \u00e7\u0131kmayacak m\u0131y\u0131z? Argasdi’nin 55. say\u0131s\u0131nda Zekiye \u015eent\u00fcrklerin kaleminden<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":7042,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[40,44,9,1],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/argasdi-foto.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4eHWX-1Pz","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7041"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7041"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7041\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7043,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7041\/revisions\/7043"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7042"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}