{"id":7089,"date":"2019-09-21T08:03:41","date_gmt":"2019-09-21T06:03:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=7089"},"modified":"2019-09-21T08:03:41","modified_gmt":"2019-09-21T06:03:41","slug":"kucuk-kadinciklar-sifa-alcicioglu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=7089","title":{"rendered":"K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck Kad\u0131nc\u0131klar-\u015eifa Al\u00e7\u0131c\u0131o\u011flu"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"cocuk-gelin-sorunu-kanayan-yara\"<\/a>\u00c7ocukluk konusunu inceledi\u011fimiz dergimizin 55. say\u0131s\u0131nda onlardan bahsetmesek olmazd\u0131, onlar ki \u00e7ocuklu\u011fu ellerinden al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kad\u0131nc\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131… Uzun y\u0131llar dillendirilmeyen, hep \u00f6rtbas edilen bu b\u00fcy\u00fck utanc\u0131 aktivistimiz \u015eifa Al\u00e7\u0131c\u0131o\u011flu’nun kaleminden aktar\u0131yoruz sizlere. Argasdi’nin 55. say\u0131s\u0131ndan yaz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sizlerle payla\u015f\u0131rken, \u00f6te yandan yeni say\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7in haz\u0131rl\u0131klar heyecanla devam ediyor.\u00a0 Argasdi’ye Baraka K\u00fclt\u00fcr Merkezi Lokali’nden, b\u00f6lgenizde bulunan Khora Kitabevlerinden ve gazete bayiilerinden 10 TL kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ula\u015fabilirsiniz…<\/em><\/p>\n

<\/em>\u0130nsan hayat\u0131n\u0131n en keyifli ve yarat\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011fu zamanlard\u0131r \u00e7ocukluk y\u0131llar\u0131\u2026 Nenemin, abileriyle oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 lingiriyi defa defa anlatmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bir kam\u0131\u015f par\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne \u00e7ap\u0131t sararak, y\u00fcz\u00fcne k\u00f6m\u00fcrden bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyi\u015f oturttu\u011fu \u201cbubba\u201d dedi\u011fi bez bebeklere hayat verdi\u011fi o anlara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. Annemin, bisikletin i\u00e7 lasti\u011finden top yaparak yakan top oynaman\u0131n hazz\u0131n\u0131 tekrardan ya\u015famas\u0131, dere kenarlar\u0131nda, tepelerde, y\u0131lan \u00e7\u0131yan d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden oyunlar kurduklar\u0131, a\u011fa\u00e7lar\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnde daldan dala atlay\u0131p \u201chi\u00e7 de korkmazm\u0131\u015f\u0131k\u201d diye \u015fimdilerde \u015fa\u015f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlard\u0131r. Mutlulu\u011fu, g\u00f6zlerinin ta i\u00e7inden g\u00f6rmektir \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu hat\u0131rlamak. O y\u00fczden hemen herkeste bir heyecan dalgas\u0131 yarat\u0131r o y\u0131llar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek.<\/p>\n

\u00dclke ge\u00e7mi\u015fimize bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman \u00e7ocuklu\u011funun en g\u00fczel y\u0131llar\u0131nda erkenden b\u00fcy\u00fcmek zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131lan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 da g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcz. Sava\u015f, yoksulluk gibi etmenler yeti\u015fkinleri \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n g\u00f6remeyece\u011fi \u00e7aresizliklere s\u00fcr\u00fckler ve talihsiz kararlar almalar\u0131na neden olur. En ac\u0131 olaylardan biri de \u00e7ocukluklar\u0131 ellerinden al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f binlerce k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funun suskunlu\u011fa bo\u011fulmu\u015f, y\u0131llarca dillendirilmemi\u015f trajedisidir. Tarihe kara bir leke olarak yaz\u0131lan Araplara sat\u0131lan k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r onlar, gemilere bindirilip bir bilinmezli\u011fe yollanan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kad\u0131nc\u0131klar\u2026<\/p>\n

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\"evlilik<\/a>K\u0131br\u0131s\u2019ta 1920\u2019li y\u0131llardan 1950\u2019li y\u0131llara kadar say\u0131s\u0131 binleri a\u015fan bir\u00e7ok k\u0131z, Filistin\u2019ten gelen Araplara sat\u0131ld\u0131lar. O y\u0131llarda ayn\u0131 s\u00f6m\u00fcrge devletinin \u00fclkeleri olan K\u0131br\u0131s ve Filistin aras\u0131nda ticari anla\u015fmalar s\u00f6z konusuydu. K\u0131br\u0131s\u2019tan kat\u0131r, kuzu gibi hayvanlar ve narenciye al\u0131p satmaya gelen Araplar, hem g\u00fczel hem de M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmalar\u0131 nedeniyle K\u0131br\u0131s\u2019taki T\u00fcrk k\u0131zlar\u0131na talip olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Kendini zengin ya da meslek sahibi olarak tan\u0131tan Araplar, simsarlar arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla k\u00f6ylerdeki beyaz tenli, renkli g\u00f6zl\u00fc k\u0131zlarla belli bir para kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda evleniyordu. En k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fc 9\u2019unda olarak bilinen, daha \u00e7ok fakir ailelerden ve yetim kalanlardan se\u00e7ilen k\u0131zlar, tan\u0131mad\u0131klar\u0131 bu adamlara emanet edilerek kaderlerine boyun e\u011fmeye zorland\u0131lar. Sadece, k\u0131y\u0131lan imam nikah\u0131 ve m\u00fcft\u00fcl\u00fckten al\u0131nan bir belgeyle yap\u0131lan bu kap\u0131 arkas\u0131 evlili\u011fin ard\u0131ndan \u201ckoca\u201d dedikleri bu adamlarla \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131klar\u0131 hayat yolculu\u011funda ba\u015flar\u0131na ne gelece\u011fini bilmeden g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fcler.<\/p>\n

\u00c7o\u011funlu\u011fu memleketine bir daha asla d\u00f6nemedi. Kocas\u0131ndan \u015fiddet g\u00f6ren de oldu, ge\u00e7inip gidenler de\u2026 Ailelerin bir\u00e7o\u011fu bu k\u0131zlar\u0131 g\u00f6nderdikten sonra hayat\u0131ndan sildi, yokmu\u015f gibi davrand\u0131. Onlar ise hayatlar\u0131 boyunca k\u0131rg\u0131n ve k\u0131zg\u0131n olarak ya\u015fad\u0131lar. Maddi olarak zor g\u00fcnler ya\u015fayan bir halk\u0131n ensesinde biten bu f\u0131rsat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n, hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011fini anlamadan, kendi dillerine yabanc\u0131 olarak ya\u015fay\u0131p bu d\u00fcnyadan g\u00f6\u00e7 ettiler\u2026<\/p>\n

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O y\u0131llarda, \u0130ngiliz S\u00f6m\u00fcrge Y\u00f6netimi idaresi alt\u0131nda bulunan halk, yoksullu\u011fun pen\u00e7esinde, kurakl\u0131kla imtihan edilen k\u00f6t\u00fc zamanlardan ge\u00e7mekteydi. Sadece kendi menfaatini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, kanatl\u0131 hayvanlar\u0131n korunmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bile \u00e7e\u015fitli yasalar \u00e7\u0131karan \u0130ngilizler, bu olaylara kar\u015f\u0131 duyars\u0131z kalarak hi\u00e7 tepki g\u00f6stermemi\u015f ve s\u00f6m\u00fcrgesine ikinci s\u0131n\u0131f vatanda\u015f muamelesi yapmaktan geri durmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kendi ekonomik g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131, o y\u0131llarda okullara \u00e7ok fazla k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funun g\u00f6nderilmemesi bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck kad\u0131nc\u0131klar\u0131n, haklar\u0131n\u0131 savunmak i\u00e7in ellerinden bir \u015fey gelmedi\u011finin g\u00f6stergesi durumundad\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca, bahsi ge\u00e7en y\u0131llarda Lefke\u2019deki Cyprius Mines Corparation (CMC) \u00a0maden i\u015fletmesi, 2. Payla\u015f\u0131m Sava\u015f\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda faaliyetine ara vermi\u015f, tarlas\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p birka\u00e7 kuru\u015fa madende \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan erkekler de i\u015fsiz kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Y\u0131llarca ekilemeyen tarlalar, kurakl\u0131k ve i\u015fsizlik, d\u00f6nemin en ac\u0131 tablolar\u0131ndan biriydi. Ailelerin k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 satmas\u0131, her ne kadar kabul edilebilir olmasa da ekonomik olarak dibe vurmu\u015f bir halk\u0131n cehaletinin ve \u00e7aresizli\u011finin bir sonucu olarak da kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 y\u0131llarda i\u015fsiz bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi, \u0130ngiliz askeri olarak, kat\u0131rlarla y\u00fck ta\u015f\u0131mak amac\u0131yla \u201ckat\u0131rc\u0131\u201d olarak askere yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Filistin\u2019e askere yollanan K\u0131br\u0131sl\u0131lar, Araplara sat\u0131lan k\u0131zlar\u0131n ba\u015flar\u0131na neler geldi\u011fini, cepheye gelen Araplardan ya da genelevlere sat\u0131lan k\u0131zlardan \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015flerdir. B\u00f6ylece k\u0131zlar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 dram g\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

30\u2019lu y\u0131llarda baz\u0131 gazetelerde ayd\u0131nlar taraf\u0131ndan bu konu dillendirilip, ele\u015ftiriler yap\u0131lsa da hakikat\u0131n \u00f6\u011frenilmesinin ard\u0131ndan verilen en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc tepki, \u00a0Filistin\u2019de terc\u00fcman olarak bulunan Mustafa Bitirim taraf\u0131ndan yay\u0131mlanan 16 sayfal\u0131k bro\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fc. \u201cBiz, K\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z ve Araplar\u2026 Aman Ne Oluyoruz\u201d adl\u0131 bro\u015f\u00fcr, k\u0131zlar\u0131n durumu hakk\u0131nda bilgi verip uyar\u0131 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131nda bulunuyordu. Konu, baz\u0131 gazetelerde \u00e7\u0131ksa da izleri s\u00fcr\u00fclen k\u0131zlar bu defa da 1948 y\u0131l\u0131nda \u0130srail devletinin kurulmas\u0131yla yerlerinden edilip ba\u015fka \u00fclkelere s\u00fcr\u00fcklenirler ve izleri yine kaybolur. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u00fclkelerine geri d\u00f6ner ama bir\u00e7o\u011funun, hayat\u0131 kamplarda sefalet i\u00e7inde ge\u00e7er. Son y\u0131llarda annesi veya nenesi K\u0131br\u0131sl\u0131 T\u00fcrk bir\u00e7ok Filistin vatanda\u015f\u0131, annelerinin izinden giderek miras hakk\u0131 bile tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bu k\u0131zlar\u0131n izlerini s\u00fcrerek buradaki ailelerini bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktad\u0131r. K\u0131br\u0131sl\u0131 T\u00fcrklerden de ailesini bulmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayan bir kesim oldu\u011funu biliyoruz.<\/p>\n

Neriman Cahit\u2019in \u201cAraplara Sat\u0131lan K\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u201d adl\u0131 kapsaml\u0131 kitab\u0131, bu ac\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fi t\u00fcm detaylar\u0131yla g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcne vurmakta ayr\u0131ca, Fetine\u2019yi Ararken isimli belgesel bu konuda \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ayd\u0131nlatmaya devam etmektedir. Bir\u00e7ok b\u00fcrokratik engele ra\u011fmen ailesini bulan, o ac\u0131lar\u0131, \u00f6zlemleri gidermeye \u00e7abalayan yitik hayat kahramanlar\u0131 olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Araplara sat\u0131lan k\u0131zlar, bu \u00fclkenin utanc\u0131d\u0131r. O g\u00fcnden bu g\u00fcne \u00e7ok \u015fey de\u011fi\u015fse de kad\u0131nlar, hala sistemin en \u00e7ok ezdi\u011fi kesimini olu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r. O y\u00fczden kad\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131p sat\u0131lan bir mal olarak g\u00f6ren, de\u011fersizle\u015ftiren, sadece eve hapseden, giyimine, kahkahas\u0131na bile kar\u0131\u015fan muhafazakar sisteme inat, kad\u0131nlar sokaklarda, kad\u0131nlar gecelerde, kad\u0131nlar meydanlarda olacak!<\/p>\n

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Tarihsel S\u00fcre\u00e7te K\u0131br\u0131sl\u0131 T\u00fcrk Kad\u0131n\u0131, Neriman Cahit.<\/i><\/p>\n

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