{"id":7789,"date":"2020-11-18T14:37:19","date_gmt":"2020-11-18T12:37:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=7789"},"modified":"2020-11-18T14:37:19","modified_gmt":"2020-11-18T12:37:19","slug":"cebimdeki-pirilliler-pinar-piro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/?p=7789","title":{"rendered":"Cebimdeki Pirilliler- P\u0131nar Piro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Argasdi’nin “90’lar” temal\u0131 59. say\u0131s\u0131ndan; \u00f6zlemimizdeki \u00e7ocukluktan bug\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklu\u011funa uzanan bu duygu y\u00fckl\u00fc bir yaz\u0131yla biraz ge\u00e7mi\u015fe uzanmaya ne dersiniz?<\/em><\/p>\n

\"cebimdeki<\/a>Her insan \u00f6zler mi \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu, bilmiyorum. Zira herkesin \u00e7ocuklu\u011fu ayn\u0131 ya\u015fanm\u0131yor. Maddi manevi hayata etki eden her etken, ayn\u0131 mahalleyi payla\u015fan insanlar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 birbirinden u\u00e7 iki noktaya s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebiliyor. Ben \u00e7ocuklu\u011fu g\u00fczel ge\u00e7mi\u015f \u015fansl\u0131lardan\u0131m. 90\u2019l\u0131 y\u0131llara denk gelen bir \u00e7ocukluk\u2026<\/p>\n

Kap\u0131yorum g\u00f6zlerimi<\/b><\/p>\n

Annemin mutfa\u011f\u0131ndan ka\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m kap kacaklar, bah\u00e7ede \u00fcst\u00fcm ba\u015f\u0131m bata \u00e7\u0131ka pasta yap\u0131yorum. \u00dczerini bah\u00e7edeki en g\u00fczel \u00e7i\u00e7eklerle s\u00fcsl\u00fcyorum. Yan\u0131mda ta a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki mahalleden gelme bir arkada\u015f\u0131m. Bisikleti yerde yat\u0131yor. \u0130\u015fimiz bitince onu da y\u0131kar\u0131z mutlaka. Mutfaktan ger\u00e7ek bir kek kokusu geliyor. \u00c7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor annem, \u201ctemizlenin de gelin\u201d diye. Biz pastam\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6steriyoruz. G\u00f6zleri e\u015fyalar\u0131n ve bizim kirlili\u011fimize de\u011fil yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z pastaya tak\u0131l\u0131yor. \u201cDurun bir resmini \u00e7ekeyim\u201d diyor. \u0130\u00e7erden filmli foto\u011fraf makinemizi al\u0131yor ve resmimizi \u00e7ekiyor. \u015eimdi heyecanla filmin dolmas\u0131n\u0131 ve babam\u0131n onlar\u0131 temizletmesini bekleyece\u011fiz. Belki bu kez g\u00f6zlerimizi kapatmam\u0131\u015f\u0131zd\u0131r ya da annemin parma\u011f\u0131 fla\u015f\u0131 kapatmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r yine.<\/p>\n

G\u00f6zlerim kapal\u0131 hala. Bir g\u00fcn annemle y\u00fcr\u00fcyerek teyzeme gidiyoruz. Ya\u015f\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flu en yak\u0131n arkada\u015f\u0131m. Al\u0131yoruz elimize torbalar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yoruz da\u011fa. Hostez veya lale toplamaya. Ka\u00e7 saat ge\u00e7mi\u015f, biri pe\u015fimize mi tak\u0131lacakm\u0131\u015f, yan\u0131nda biri olmadan da\u011fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmazm\u0131\u015f\u2026 \u00d6yle dertlerimiz yok.<\/p>\n

Sabah okula gidiyoruz. T\u00fcm \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir oyun kurmu\u015fuz kendimize. Yakantop oynarken top y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcn tam ortas\u0131na geliyor, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorum. Elimden tutup kald\u0131r\u0131yor birileri, elimin tersi ile siliyorum y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fc ve devam. Zil \u00e7al\u0131yor, k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6nl\u00fcklerimizle bir araday\u0131z, yakalar\u0131m\u0131z \u00fct\u00fcl\u00fc mis gibi kokuyor. S\u0131n\u0131fa giriyoruz, birle\u015ftirilmi\u015f s\u0131n\u0131f, \u00fc\u00e7 s\u0131n\u0131f ayn\u0131 odada. \u00d6\u011flen oldu ve o \u00f6nl\u00fckler da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f. T\u00fcm \u00e7ocuklar ko\u015fa ko\u015fa \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yoruz okuldan. Eve gidene kadar yar\u0131\u015f ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Bakal\u0131m bug\u00fcn yol \u00fcst\u00fcndeki at \u015feklindeki a\u011fa\u00e7 k\u00fct\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne ilk kim oturacak?<\/p>\n

Yeme\u011fimizi yiyoruz yine teyzemdeyim tabi. Cebimizdeki pirillilerin sesleri geliyor, \u00e7abucak bitiriyoruz yeme\u011fi. A\u00e7\u0131l\u0131yor file torbalar, gururluyum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc en b\u00fcy\u00fck enek bende. Dikkatle diziyoruz yan yana hepsini. Susam Soka\u011f\u0131 ba\u015flayana kadar bah\u00e7eden i\u00e7eri girmek yok.<\/p>\n

A\u00e7\u0131yorum g\u00f6zlerimi<\/b><\/p>\n

\u015eimdiki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131 ya\u015fayabiliyor bunlar\u0131 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten al\u0131koyam\u0131yorum kendimi.<\/p>\n

\u00c7amurlar\u0131n yerini oyun hamurlar\u0131 alm\u0131\u015f. Eskiden ger\u00e7e\u011fi ile oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7eki\u00e7lerin, tornavidalar\u0131n yerini aman \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir yerine bir \u015fey olmas\u0131n diye plastikleri alm\u0131\u015f. Mutfaktaki e\u015fyalar o kadar s\u00fcsl\u00fc p\u00fcsl\u00fc ve pahal\u0131 olmu\u015f ki ne demek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z onlarla oynayacak. Biraz daha para verip oyunca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r\u0131z ama m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse d\u0131\u015far\u0131da oynamas\u0131n ki topraktan alerji olmas\u0131n, \u00fcst\u00fc ba\u015f\u0131 kirlenmesin. G\u00fczel bir bilgisayar alal\u0131m ki derslerini en iyi \u015fekilde yapabilsin hem arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile oyun da oynar. Zaten bu y\u0131l okula da ba\u015flad\u0131 ve Pandemi\u2019den dolay\u0131 e\u011fitim online olacak, bu nedenle bir telefon ya da tablet alal\u0131m ki derslerinden geri kalmas\u0131n. Tabi g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz yeterse\u2026<\/p>\n

Zaman de\u011fi\u015fiyor \u00e7ocukluk de\u011fil<\/b><\/p>\n

Evet zaman eski zaman de\u011fil. D\u00fcnya de\u011fi\u015fiyor ve bu de\u011fi\u015fim baz\u0131 konularda bizi geriye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrken \u00f6zellikle teknoloji anlam\u0131nda ileriye g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Bu de\u011fi\u015fime ayak uydurmak gerek. Elbette ki \u00e7ocuklar, uygun ya\u015fta ve ihtiya\u00e7 durumundaysa teknolojik aletlerle bulu\u015facak. Merak ettiklerini ara\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenecek. \u0130nsanlarla ileti\u015fim kurmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenecek. Ama bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun; renkleri, say\u0131lar\u0131, \u015fekilleri \u00f6\u011frenmek i\u00e7in ekrandan g\u00f6rece\u011fi bir g\u00f6rsele ihtiyac\u0131 yok. En g\u00fczel renkler do\u011fan\u0131n kendisindedir zaten.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde mahallede oynayan \u00e7ocuklar hala var. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hala, tam g\u00fcn e\u011fitim almayan veya her g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6zel derslerle dolu olmayan, okuldan arta kalan zamanda \u201ckendisinden sorumlu bir yeti\u015fkin\u201d ile kal\u0131p oyun oynamaya ve arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile bir \u015feyler yapmaya f\u0131rsat\u0131 olabilen \u015fansl\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar var. \u00a0Ancak say\u0131lar\u0131 azal\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ebeveynler tam g\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131nca ve bakacak birisi de olmay\u0131nca \u00e7ocuklar mecburen e\u011fitimsel bir faaliyetin i\u00e7ine girip binalara kapanmak zorunda kal\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz inan\u0131yoruz ki e\u011fitim kurumlar\u0131nda ne kadar zaman harcarlarsa ald\u0131klar\u0131 e\u011fitim de o kadar iyi olacak. Sokaklardaki \u00e7ocuk kahkalar\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131n\u0131n bir di\u011fer sebebi de biz yeti\u015fkinlerin \u201czaman\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc\u201dnden korkuyor olmam\u0131zd\u0131r. Oysa sokak \u00f6\u011fretir \u00e7ocuklara hayat\u0131n hep g\u00fcll\u00fck g\u00fclistanl\u0131k olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131. Ne\u015fe i\u00e7inde oynarken bir anda tart\u0131\u015fma \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fini ve kendini savunmak ve korumak zorunda kalabilece\u011fini\u2026<\/p>\n

90\u2019larda \u00e7ocuk olmak neydi? <\/b><\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcn m\u00fc kalkmay\u0131, k\u00fcst\u00fcn m\u00fc bar\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 bilmekti. Ufac\u0131k \u015feylerle mutlu olabilmek, bir avu\u00e7 topraktan oyun yaratabilmekti. Peki su\u00e7lu zamane \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 m\u0131? Asla de\u011fil. Su\u00e7lu, kendi \u00e7ocukluklar\u0131n\u0131n harikal\u0131\u011f\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcp \u015fimdiki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015fam kaliteleri i\u00e7in hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmayan yeti\u015fkinlerin. \u00c7ocuklara \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck ve kendini ifade edebilecek bo\u015f zaman gerek, kendilerini bulmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in gereken serbest alan\u0131 onlara sunmak gerek. De\u011fi\u015fen d\u00fcnya d\u00fczenine ayak uydurmak i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131ktan uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmaya gerek yok, onlar zaten ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 gidermenin yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

B\u0131rakal\u0131m da \u00e7ak\u0131l ta\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n dengede durmas\u0131 i\u00e7in hangi noktadan \u00fcst \u00fcste yerle\u015fmesi gerekti\u011fini deneyerek bulsunlar, hayatlar\u0131nda denge kurman\u0131n zorlu\u011funu, yan\u0131lmadan ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015fman\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, elleri ac\u0131yarak, \u00fcstleri kirlenerek \u00f6\u011frensinler. O at \u015feklindeki a\u011fa\u00e7 k\u00fct\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne ilk binen olmak i\u00e7in her g\u00fcn daha h\u0131zl\u0131 ko\u015fmay\u0131 denesinler ama bazen olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da bilip bununla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131 ba\u015fars\u0131nlar.<\/p>\n

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Argasdi’nin “90’lar” temal\u0131 59. say\u0131s\u0131ndan; \u00f6zlemimizdeki \u00e7ocukluktan bug\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklu\u011funa uzanan bu duygu y\u00fckl\u00fc bir yaz\u0131yla biraz ge\u00e7mi\u015fe uzanmaya ne dersiniz? Her insan \u00f6zler mi \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":7790,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[40,67,44,9,1,39],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cebimdeki-pirililer-3.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4eHWX-21D","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7789"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7789"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7789\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7791,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7789\/revisions\/7791"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7790"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7789"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7789"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/baraka.cc\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7789"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}